Dear Little Me

 

Dear Little Me,

I know you’re curious, confused, and constantly wondering if you’re doing life 'right'. So I thought I’d write you a little something—like a warm hug in words—from the future. Think of this as a guide from your older sister who’s been through the all-night working, the overthinking, the heartbreaks, the wild dreams, and the endless scrolling on social media. Let’s talk about everything—career, love, fashion, and that noisy little voice in your head.

Lets talk about the serious stuff first.

Hey, I know you're still figuring out what you want to do. And that’s okay. You don’t have to have it all planned right now. The truth is, most people are still learning even when they’re adults. So don’t stress if your path doesn’t look like someone else’s.

Try different things. Explore what excites you—not just what looks good on paper. It's okay if you change your mind. What matters is that you show up, stay curious, and keep learning. Hard work matters, yes, but so does rest. You don’t need to burn out to prove yourself.

Also, never let someone else’s success make you feel small. Your journey is yours. It’s not a race. sometimes , it might feel like you are just a small peck in a dessert, but celebrate your small wins and constantly look forward to your next ones. Its a journey, you complete in your timeline.

Social media is both: a yay and nay

Now where is this toxicity and comparison coming from? I know. You are not just looking around, you are looking everywhere. More stories? more to think !

But listen, social media is fun. It lets you share your life, your work, your thoughts—but remember, it’s not real life. People mostly post their best days, not their bad ones. So don’t fall into the trap of thinking everyone has it all figured out just because their feed looks perfect.

You don’t need to look or live like someone else to feel worthy. You’re already enough.

Follow people who inspire you, not those who make you feel like you’re always missing out. And take breaks when it starts messing with your head—it’s okay to log off and live offline.

You don’t owe anyone your presence online. Just be honest with yourself and protect your peace.

your perspective? yes we need to take care of it

This one’s important, little one.

Your thoughts shape your world. If you keep telling yourself you’re not good enough, you’ll start believing it. So be kind to your mind. Talk to yourself like someone you love.

Things won’t always go as planned. People will doubt you. You’ll doubt yourself too. But that’s okay—it’s part of the process. What matters is that you keep showing up. Not perfectly, but honestly.

Learn to trust the timing of your life. Everyone’s path looks different. Just because someone else gets there faster doesn’t mean you won’t get there too. Slow progress is still progress. Baby steps matter

And remember, you’re allowed to change. Grow. Outgrow. Fall. Start over. That doesn’t make you lost—it makes you human.

The world, the situations and conditions will be more or less same for all, but what makes it absolutely different for everyone is the point of view. The world seems of the colour , your glasses are of.

Relationships can be a rollercoaster, but remember to have fun

Okay, listen closely here.

Not every person you meet is meant to stay forever. And that’s okay. Some people come into your life to teach you something, some to walk with you a little while, and some to remind you what you truly deserve. Choose people who feel like soft places to land. You don’t need to chase love, attention, or friendship. The right ones won’t make you beg for effort, respect, or time.

And when it comes to love—don’t lose yourself trying to keep someone else. You’re not too much, and you’re not too little. The right person will love the real you, not the version you shrink into. Most importantly, be that person for yourself first. Build a friendship with yourself that no one can shake.

But don’t enter the world with a biased mind. There are great people with amazing stories , loving souls and great minds . Just because you are trying to protect yourself, don't push away good people. Be open , be careful !

Dream big , bigger, biggest

Seriously.

Don’t let the world tell you what's 'too much' or 'too unrealistic'. If you see something in your head and feel it in your heart, it means you're meant to at least try. And trust me—trying is already a big deal.

You don’t need to have it all figured out right now. Just start somewhere. Take that class, build that idea, send that email, ask that question. Every tiny step counts. Now when you go to your college or as an intern to a studio, don’t overthink before taking up that plunge. Some people might laugh or not get it. That’s fine. It’s your dream, not theirs. And one day, they’ll wish they believed in you earlier.

And remember—dreams change. What you want today might evolve tomorrow. That doesn’t mean you’re lost, it just means you’re growing. Let that happen.
Plus tell me, what's there to lose? But what's there to gain? The sky is the limit !

You don’t walk, you own your runaway

Wear what makes you feel like you.

Fashion isn’t about trends or impressing anyone. It’s a way to tell the world who you are—without saying a word. So if you feel amazing in jeans and a tee, rock that. If you love layers, colors, or bold prints, go for it. If you nail traditional, why not? There are no rules, just your vibe.

You’ll hear a lot of opinions—what’s “too much,” “too basic,” “too weird.” Ignore that noise. Clothes don’t define you, but they can empower you. So have fun with it. Try different styles. Borrow. Thrift. Mix things up. Let it evolve with you.

And remember, confidence is the best thing you can wear. Always.

And at the end of the day, Fashion is a thing you have so much fun with. Don't let a few judgmental eyes tone down your excitement, okay?

So here were the most important things I realized over these years. I would love to tell you a lot more, but this so much what a letter can hold. Trust me , everything fell in place for us and you made that happen so, don't be afraid about anything . we nailed it!

- Love